Tom Sandoval 'didn't make the invite list' for Stassi Schroeder's Italian wedding and Scheana Shay was 'disinvited' ... but Vanderpump Rules stars brush off snub by partying in NYC

  • Tom Sandoval and Scheana Shay reportedly didn't make the cut for the guest list at Stassi's Italian wedding this week 
  • 'Scheana was originally supposed to go, but at some point she got disinvited,' a source revealed to Page Six
  • Sandoval was never invited to the event but neither he nor Sheana seemed to care and were seen partying together in NYC this week 
  • Stassi Schroeder and husband Beau Clark had a formal and very splashy wedding in Rome
  • Sandoval and Stassi famously fought over her book signing party at TomTom in 2020 leading Sandoval to ban his then co-star from the bar 
  • Some of the Vanderpump Rules alum's guests were Katie Maloney and Tom Schwartz 
  • Stassi and Beau first wed in their back yard with very few guests in 2020 due to COVID

Not all of the Vanderpump Rules crew made the cut for Stassi Schroeder's spectacular Roman wedding this week to husband Beau Clark.

Tom Sandoval and Scheana Shay were persona non grata at the swanky event, according to a source who spoke with Page Six and revealed that Shay actually had her invite rescinded by the bride. 

Stassi and Beau tied the knot for the second time on Friday (the first in a small COVID-era ceremony) at the Hotel de Russie in Rome, Italy

Persona non grata: Not all of the Vanderpump Rules crew made the cut for Stassi Schroeder's spectacular Roman wedding this week to husband Beau Clark, specifically Tom Sandoval and Scheana Shay (pictured together in 2018)

Persona non grata: Not all of the Vanderpump Rules crew made the cut for Stassi Schroeder's spectacular Roman wedding this week to husband Beau Clark, specifically Tom Sandoval and Scheana Shay (pictured together in 2018)

'Scheana was originally supposed to go, but at some point she got disinvited,' a source revealed to Page Six. 'All she knew was that it was for 'budget reasons', although it didn't really seem like she was buying it.'

Tom, meanwhile, was apparently never on the guest list for Stassi's second wedding - whic should come as no surprise to Vanderpump Rules fans. 

The co-stars didn't appear to let the snub get them down and were seen on social media partying together along with Raquel Leviss.

Tom appeared on a live episode of Shay's podcast which recorded in New York City on Thursday night.

'Scheana was originally supposed to go [to Stassi's wedding], but at some point she got disinvited,' a source revealed to Page Six. 'All she knew was that it was for 'budget reasons', although it didn't really seem like she was buying it.'

'Scheana was originally supposed to go [to Stassi's wedding], but at some point she got disinvited,' a source revealed to Page Six. 'All she knew was that it was for 'budget reasons', although it didn't really seem like she was buying it.' 

He shared a backstage video from City Winery and made no mention of Stassi's big event. 

Kristen Doute - who was fired from the Bravo show alongside Stassi after falsely accusing black castmate Faith Sowers of theft to the police - was also absent from the wedding but had been invited.

Doute congratulated Stassi on Instagram and was asked by a fan why she wasn't in Rome to celebrate.

'Ugh so sad I missed Rome, but we have a wedding here we had already booked! I'm soo happy she got her dream wedding,' she responded. 

Some former Vanderpump Rules co-stars did make the cut for the guest list like Katie Maloney and Tom Schwartz, who recently split but are on civil terms. 

Sandoval and Stassi famously fought in a full blown screaming match over her book signing party at TomTom in 2020 leading Sandoval to ban his co-star from the bar.

'If she comes in, she's getting thrown out immediately,' Sandoval said at the time during an episode of Vanderpump Rules.

Not bothered: The co-stars didn't appear to let the snub get them down and were seen on social media partying together along with Raquel Leviss

Not bothered: The co-stars didn't appear to let the snub get them down and were seen on social media partying together along with Raquel Leviss

Busy: Tom appeared on a live episode of Shay's podcast which recorded in New York City on Thursday night

Busy: Tom appeared on a live episode of Shay's podcast which recorded in New York City on Thursday night

Nothing to say: He shared a backstage video from City Winery and made no mention of Stassi's big event

Nothing to say: He shared a backstage video from City Winery and made no mention of Stassi's big event

Stassi didn't take his attitude lying down and publicly branded Tom as a 'selfish, egotistical piece of s**t'.

Their feud was likely far from Stassi's mind, however, on Friday when she stepped out in a tulle wedding gown to say her I dos a second time.

In images shared to social media, Schroeder looked like a princess in the gown with a sweetheart neckline from designer Galia Lahav that featured a white veil.

The couple were also seen smiling as they held their daughter Hartford Charlie Rose Clark, age one, who had on a white tulle dress that matched her mother's gown. 

Old drama: Sandoval and Stassi famously fought in a full blown screaming match over her book signing party at TomTom in 2020 leading Sandoval to ban his co-star from the bar

Old drama: Sandoval and Stassi famously fought in a full blown screaming match over her book signing party at TomTom in 2020 leading Sandoval to ban his co-star from the bar

Stassi and Beau started their romance towards the end of 2017 and they became engaged in July 2019. 

The two first officially wed in 2020 in a back yard with few in attendance due to COVID.

They had to wait until now to have a big, splashy wedding of their dreams with their friends in Italy. 

The former reality star, who was fired from Vanderpump Rules over a racism scandal, was spotted in Italy the day before with some of her former co-stars to kick off her lavish wedding week.

Guest list: Some former Vanderpump Rules co-stars did make the cut for the guest list like Katie Maloney and Tom Schwartz, who recently split but are on civil terms

Guest list: Some former Vanderpump Rules co-stars did make the cut for the guest list like Katie Maloney and Tom Schwartz, who recently split but are on civil terms 

Schroeder stunned in social media photos in a romantic white silk gown for her 'welcoming party' on Wednesday.

She greeted guests, including Vanderpump Rules exes Katie and Tom.

Stassi and Beau were spotted taking in the Roman sights on Tuesday with their daughter Hartford and some pals.

The canceled reality star appears to have shaken off her tumultuous few years, being axed from Vanderpump Rules, dropped by her team and losing her podcast over allegations of racism. 

Fairytale! In images shared to social media, Schroeder looked like a princess in the gown with a sweetheart neckline from designer Galia Lahav that featured a white veil

Fairytale! In images shared to social media, Schroeder looked like a princess in the gown with a sweetheart neckline from designer Galia Lahav that featured a white veil 

Their 2020 nuptials were small. The reality TV duo threw together an intimate and socially distanced affair in their backyard instead of their originally planned ceremony in Italy which has just now come to fruition.

'Today would've been our wedding day. We went and did it anyway,' Stassi captioned footage of their legal wedding. 'Hopefully Italian dream wedding oct 2021.'

Unfortunately for Stassi, 2021 came and went in the height of the coronavirus crisis and she wouldn't get her dream event until the following year. 

Bravo cameras were expected to capture the ceremony, which would have been aired on season nine of the show, before Stassi was axed.

The Clarks: The couple were also seen smiling as they held their daughter Hartford Charlie Rose Clark, age one, who had on a white tulle dress that matched her mother's gown

The Clarks: The couple were also seen smiling as they held their daughter Hartford Charlie Rose Clark, age one, who had on a white tulle dress that matched her mother's gown 

Stassi's past racially insensitive actions - she reported her black co-star Faith Stowers to the police in 2018 for a crime she did not commit - resurfaced in 2019 leading to her firing.

Not only did she lose her part on the hit reality show, but Stassi's podcast Straight Up With Stassi was dropped from endorsement deals and she was let go by her PR agency.

The star has come out the other side of the scandal and recently released her second book, Off With My Head: The Definitive Basic B***h Handbook to Surviving Rock Bottom, which shot to number eight on the New York Times Best Seller List. 

Stassi has maintained her relationships with most of her former co-stars and was seen in April celebrating Brittany Cartwright and Jax Taylor's son's first birthday along with Lala Kent, Kristen Doute, Katie Maloney and Tom Schwartz.

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